How frequently do you have arguments with your best friend? I’m not talking about trifles. I mean a huge rupture. For me it’s not that often but sometimes happens.
What do you do? What kind of apology methods do you usually use? How about something really useful?
Once I was in real trouble with my best friend Julia. We know each other since we were kids. We have some quarrels from time to time like everyone else. But this period was really difficult.
I decided to act proactively. I searched some special ways to apologize in the Internet. From the time when she stopped talking to me, I was using one online sorry service, because I found it to be the best way to evoke a response from her.
I also chose my poem carefully.
I decided to stop on Margery Wang’s poem about best friends. Check it out:
Best Friend Poem
I still remember the first day we met
We were too shy to say much at all
It’s funny to think back to that time
Because now we’re having a ball!
They say that true friendship is rare
An adage that I believe to be true
Genuine friendship is something that I cherish
I am so lucky to have met you.
Our bond is extremely special
It is unique in it’s own way
We have something irreplaceable
I love you more and more each day.
We’ve been through so much together
In so little time we’ve shared
I will never forget all the moments
That you’ve shown me how much you cared.
Friends are forever
Especially the bond that you and I possess
I love your fun-filled personality
Somehow you never fail to impress.
The world could use more people like you
It would certainly be a better place
I love everything about you
You are someone I could never replace.
You are always there for me
When my spirits need a little lift
I cannot thank you enough for that
You are truly an extraordinary gift.
You are everything to me and more
I could never express that enough
Life is such a treacherous journey, and
Without you it would be even more tough.
Our story will continue to grow
With each passing day
Because I trust that with you by my side
Everything will always be Okay.
You are so dear to me
You know I will love you until the end
I will always be there for you, and
You will always (and forever) be my best friend.
By Margery Wang
Did you like it? You can also use this one. But let’s go on with the magic.
Here’s a great tool to send a message in the future – www.futureme.org.
Once you come up with a subject of your future message, you set a date and time for the message to be delivered. If you pick her birthday and you’re ready to wait for some time – then all right. If you want to send it immediately – then try to choose an appropriate time for it (I mean it’d be better if she’d receive your message at daytime rather than at midnight).
While finishing with all settings you may wait for her call with a safe conscience. When I already sent it to my friend I was shocked with her reaction – she immediately called me on Skype and we talked all the evening. It was unforgettable.
It may seem to you that my magic is trivial, but imagine for second how awesome would be to receive a sorry message like a total surprise? Julia duly appreciated my efforts, and I was really glad.
***
There’s one sad truth in life I’ve found
While journeying east and west –
The only folks we really wound
Are those we love the best.
We flatter those we scarcely know,
We please the fleeting guest,
And deal full many a thoughtless blow
To those who love us best.
By Ella Wheeler Wilcox
A Friend Like You
A friend like you is like no other friend
A friend like you is a friend I’m happy to have met
A friend like you is a friend I can’t scream at or fight with
A friend like you is like having no worries in my life
A friend like you is a friend that I don’t want to lose
A friend like you is like being in comfort all day
A friend like you is a friend I always wanted
A friend like you is truly awesome
A friend like you is random and funny
A friend like you is a friend that I love to death and I will never let go
A friend like you is a friend I can tell all my secrets to
A friend like you is like the little brother I’ve always wanted
A friend like you is like the little sister I’ve always wanted
A friend like you is like having no dark days because you brighten them up
A friend like you is a friend that opens up my eyes and helps me avoid bad things
A friend like you is a friend who laughs at dumb things I say or do
A friend like you is a friend I am proud to call my best friend.
By Anonymous
I Am Sorry
How do I tell you I’m sorry –
With a gesture, a look, a touch?
How is it I never realized
I hurt you so very much?
I do not ask forgiveness,
A comfort I’ll never deserve.
I merely want to let you know,
But I cannot find the nerve.
To finally confront you, face-to-face,
To look you in the eye,
To face your wrath, your apathy –
Too terrified to try.
You called me selfish, I turned away,
I festered and I fled;
Cutting and wounding and lashing out,
Just to see if you bled.
Betraying and deceiving you,
I surely had no right
To snatch away such a precious gem;
A dark thief in the night.
Four years and forever passed
To bring us to this day,
When I present these simple words
I never thought to say.
The time has come, it’s long past due,
To put aside my fear;
Would this confession torture you,
Or have you longed to hear?
To hear those two forbidden words,
To vanquish all the pain,
To understand my dearest wish:
To know you once again.
The years aged me remarkably,
Though they have not made me wise;
I do know I erred irrevocably –
For that I apologize.
By Unknown
A friend
What makes a friend?
A friend
Is someone that everyone needs
A friend
Is that special one
A friend
Is someone you tell EVERYTHING
A friend
Is someone you never lie to
A friend
Can be a boy or a girl
A friend
Is someone that is always their
A friend
Will always listen to you
A friend
Always has input to give
A friend
Will never leave you in the dust
A friend
Will help you through the thick and the thin
A friend
Will always stand by your side
A friend
Will never let you down
A friend
Is someone everyone needs
What would you do if you didnt have a friend?
By Ashley Olson
Apology
How do I tell you I’m sorry –
With a gesture, a look, a touch?
How is it I never realized
I hurt you so very much?
I do not ask forgiveness,
A comfort I’ll never deserve.
I merely want to let you know,
But I cannot find the nerve.
To finally confront you, face-to-face,
To look you in the eye,
To face your wrath, your apathy –
Too terrified to try.
You called me selfish, I turned away,
I festered and I fled;
Cutting and wounding and lashing out,
Just to see if you bled.
Betraying and deceiving you,
I surely had no right
To snatch away such a precious gem;
A dark thief in the night.
Four years and forever passed
To bring us to this day,
When I present these simple words
I never thought to say.
The time has come, it’s long past due,
To put aside my fear;
Would this confession torture you,
Or have you longed to hear?
To hear those two forbidden words,
To vanquish all the pain,
To understand my dearest wish:
To know you once again.
The years aged me remarkably,
Though they have not made me wise;
I do know I erred irrevocably –
For that I apologize.
By Tina K
I’m Sorry But You’re My Bestfriend
I am sorry for what I did
I forgive what you have done
The truth is I miss you
Remember all the laughs we have together
Each day I pick up the phone to call you
go wait I can not
because of that fight I cant recall
Don’t you remember?
All the teachers who yelled at us for talking
the insides jokes that we laughed our heads off with
the gossip & rumors we made=]
I told you we will be best friends forever
And I plan to keep that promise
I said things I didn’t mean
and you hurt me by what you said also
Just trust me on this
I’m sorry
We seem so far apart now
Which is something I don’t want to happen
You were my best friend
you can not deny it
If you don’t accept this
then I understand
you will not be forgotten
By Unknown
Sorry Poem On Friendship
True friendship is a gift
Oh so precious and so rare
Sometimes we take it for granted
Sometimes we do despair
Our fault is being human
Mistakes are everywhere
Please let me not lose the gift
That is so precious and so rare.
By Unknown
I’m Sorry
I’m sorry if I hurt you,
In that really awful way.
So lets make up and forget
About what I did that day.
I’m really sorry.
I promise I won’t do it again.
So, can we be friends from now on.
By Roisin & Paul McCan
I know what i’ve done is wrong.
I know i can’t change the past.
I know you don’t trust me.
I wish nothing had happened.
I wish I could change my mistakes.
I wish you would trust me again.
I hope nothing happens anymore.
I hope the past can be forgotten.
I hope you can trust me again soon.
I want it to never happen again.
I want to change my past.
I want you to trust me more.
For it all, I say “im sorry.”
Now all I can do is….
Know, Wish, Hope, Want
And wait.
By Kayla Parker
Hello Friend Nice to see you
nice to be with you too
but i heard you had another feeling for me?
its ok speak up be bold and be free
but you said you loved me is that true
i just want a friend not a lover like you
i just want friend why did you changed
is it because of me i feel so deranged
im sorry that you feel that way
this is not a game and i cant play
im sorry but i love another
im sorry that i left too much clutter
im sorry that i broke your heart
but we cant just go back to the start
im sorry if you think two of us together
but we cant be best friends forever
im sorry for the way you feel for me
but if you forget me i know that you will be free
from any pain that came from me.
By Ella Baccay
I Just Wanted To Say I’m Sorry
For The Things I’ve Said
All The Things I’ve Done
I Didn’t Want This
To Hurt You
But I Did
I Just Wanted You
But I Lost That
And So Did You
I Never Wanted This
To Hate You
But I Do
I Tell Myself Not To
But My Heart Said To
What Do I Do
Hate Me All You Want
It’s Not Hurting Me
It’s Hurting You
I Just Wanted To Say
I Lost My Best Friend
And That Was You
Let’s Fix This
How About Now
Or Maybe Later
I Just Wanted To Say
I Love You
So So Much
I Hope In The End
You’ll Forgive Me
For Me Will You
I Just Wanted To Say
One Last Time
I’m So Sorry.
By Yesenia Pinedo
I’m sorry, friend
I’m sorry friend
I don’t know what to do
I try so hard
to be a better person to you
I screw up a lot
and I ignore you too
I don’t know why
but I still love you
You’re my best friend
I know we can make it through
let’s make this friendship last
and make it better and true
I know you’re getting sick of me
I’m getting sick of myself too
I don’t know how many times
I can say sorry to you
But really, I am
I’m such a fool
I let such a wonderful
friendship break in two
I’m gonna push aside the past now
I’m gonna be nicer to you
I want to make this last
and show what better I can do
You’re my best friend still
and you’re my favourite too
Cait, remember the good times
and I know we’ll make it through
By Unknown
***
Sorry for all the times I have hurt you
Sorry for the times I made you cry
Sorry for the times when I wasn’t there for you
I’m sorry for the goodbye.
Sorry for whatever I did wrong
Sorry for not being strong
Sorry for not acknowledging you were right
I’m sorry if it was me who started a fight
Sorry for the times I wasn’t true
Sorry for not understanding you
I will apologize till your anger ends
Because I want you back my dear friend.
By Unknown
***
I’m sorry for being mean,
some people say its just from being a teen.
sorry for calling you this and that,
and being mean when you were up to bat.
sorry for making you cry from all the stress,
I really do think that you guys are the best.
I really mean when I say I’ll change for you,
even though I say that a lot too.
I feel really dumb for being mean to my best friend,
I’ve been mean to you since I was like 10.
I never though I would loose you,
and I just want to say I’m sorry from the bottom of my heart.
By Ash
***
True friendship is a gift
Oh so precious and so rare
Sometimes we take it for granted
Sometimes we do despair
Our fault is being human
Mistakes are everywhere
Please let me not lose the gift
That is so precious and so rare.
By Unknown
Sorry
Some people hurt us and never apologize for their actions.
O ur response to that can be a reaction to that rejection.
Righting a wrong must begin with some kind of a justification.
Reconciliation can follow on after this consolation.
You and I need to be healed from the hurt is the realization.
By Paul McCann
***
The Stars Shining In The Bright Sky
The stars shining in the bright sky,
Remind me of your big bright smile.
The smile that I brought down,
With my mistake I replaced it with a frown.
Now my heart hurts and my mind is sad,
That I made you feel so bad.
Please forgive me this time, dear,
Coz’ losing you is now what I fear.
Please smile!
By Unknown
***
Things were wrong
Things were wrong I know,
I don’t have meanings to show,
But, life plays another game,
Where there is just blame,
I am sorry from my heart,
Can’t really stay apart,
So please forgive me!
By Unknown
***
My fault it was
I know it was my fault,
As I have already admit,
But, why are you killing me bit by bit,
Please speak to me again,
I don’t have to pretend,
Coz I truly miss you,
Please forgive me!
By Unknown
I Hurt You So Bad
I’m sorry baby I hurt you so bad,
Thinking about it makes me so sad.
You’ve been such a darling to me all the time,
Inspite of the hurt, you try to make me smile.
My eyes are filled with tears,
And my heart regrets with fear.
I wish I could take it back,
I wish I could take all of it back.
Please forgive me darling I promise I’ll change,
I’ll make it a point to never ever hurt you this way.
By Unknown
I Feel Stupid
I brought tears to your eyes and made you cry,
I hurt your feelings and even I don’t know why.
I just want to go back in time and change what I did,
When I think about all I did, I actually feel stupid.
Give me one last chance and I promise to change,
I promise to never make you sad again even in rage.
I’m sorry.
By Unknown
I Wish I could Take It Back
Sorry seems to be a very small word,
Compared to the way I hurt you.
I wish I could take it all back,
And bring back that smile on your face.
But since I can’t, just want you to accept,
my sincere apology from the heart.
I’m sorry.
By Unknown
***
It is said that insincere apologies can be detected
while heart-felt apologies melt away
all grievances, anger and hatred.
Felt with all my heart
I’m sooo sorry
Apologies
Sorry
Soz
so
so
So
Sorry
Made into an apology
By Jon Bratton
***
It will never do to plead sin as an excuse for sin, or to attempt to justify sinful acts by pleading that we have an evil heart. This instead of being a valid apology, is the very ground of our condemnation.
By Archibald Alexander
***
Sorry is such a little word
But empty on it’s own;
The actions have to follow
Or it’s bad seeds that are sown.
They don’t grow into any good
They fester and they rot;
So if you mean it then you need
To prove it right or not.
By Maggie-May
***
The words just came out wrong
I know you’re so upset;
I had to tell you though
It’s a love rat you’ve just met.
You said a friend wouldn’t say
I’m sorry but that’s not true;
I’ve struggled with these thoughts
Because I care about you.
By Unknown
Please forgive me
For all the times
I’d never there for you
Please forgive me
For all the times
I talked behind your back
Though it wasn’t
Done with ill intent
Please forgive me
For taking you for granted
And for not being there
When you needed me most
Please forgive me
For the times
I’d never reach
Your expectations
For not being
Good enough for you
Please forgive me…
By clairvoyantdestiny(Jhoyce)
You’re going through a tough time,
and “I’m sorry” just isn’t enough
to express the way i feel.
But maybe if i told you
I believe in you
and i know your strengths
and i know you’ll be okay,
it’ll help you see yourself
the way i see you…
By Daphney Lacson
I hate to be blame for the things I didn’t do
I hate to hurt someone, especially you.
I hate to do this, but what else can I do?
If I know that I can never have you…
I hate to take blame on something other’s do
For I already had enough so much things to do.
I hate to leave you like this
So I hope my friend, you’ll forgive me with this.
Forgive me for I have hurt you
Please, forgive me for leaving you.
Most especially, forgive for I love you…
Because you love me, I can never blame you…
By Juneah Landicho
***
I didn’t have to fight with you
Just because we thought differently
I didn’t have to use bad words
Just because we didn’t act similarly
I didn’t have to bicker with you
Just because our opinions were diverse
Just because we had different beliefs
I didn’t have to make things so terse
I am sorry for behaving in a way
Which was selfish and immature
I am sorry for having caused a dent
In our friendship, which so pure
By Unknown
***
I have already painted
Your Facebook with many apologies
I have already tweeted on Twitter
Forgive me please
I have already uploaded on Instagram
Old pictures of us in sepia
Hoping that you will forgive me
Because of the sweet nostalgia
I am sorry
By Unknown
***
To pass the day without you
Is a mighty feat
Without your phone call
No night is complete
Having lunch all alone
Without you by my side
Makes school so unexciting
It feels like a sluggish ride
So please quit being upset
Start talking to me once more
I am a changed person
All the way through to my core
Sorry
By Unknown
***
To my dearest friend…
I hurt you unintentionally
But I am apologizing intentionally
I offended you accidentally
But I want to say sorry purposefully
I agonized you inadvertently
But I want to make up deliberately
Before I get eaten up subconsciously
Please accept my heartfelt apology
By Unknown
***
The best part of knowing
A friend’s Achilles’ Heel
Is to know how to change
The way that friend feels
Of knowing likes and dislikes
There is an amazing part
You can coax them until
You eventually mellow their hearts
Your personality and your life
Because I know inside out
I will convince you to forgive me
Of that I have no doubt
Sorry
By Unknown
Well, I hope you enjoyed reading! Probably there are other sorry poems for friends I’ve missed to add to my list. If you know some like these ones please share them with our readers in comments.
I wish you to improve your relationship with your best friend!